Today i had a small verbal fight with one of my friend at BIT.Lobby Cricket was the point of objection that finally lead to this much anger and frustation from both side.All was because of desire to win at any cost while neglecting surrounding and our own friend.Now i am not going to think over the reason or the pressure that bring such condition,but i felt something that i would like to discuss.
What should be the best way to end any confusion or fight.Either you talk gently to the point and contradict anyone or just go away for 10-15 minutes for cooldown. If you are talking without sense by giving any false clue or imagination then you will never reach to the solution.Slanging is a good thing in International event but you can’t expect to use this “Game-Politics” in our lobby cricket especially when you are taking 4-5 game in a row. I initialized a word “MATIYAO NA YAAR” when thing become little hot this policy is very good,but if your opponent is slanging continuously then definitely you cannot play peacefully in those situation.Once there is counteract of slanging then game is gonna to end because majority of people will get engage in that verbal war.Life is not only about winning or Loosing its all how do you handle any tough situation that arise instantaneously and preserve your good relation.Surely none of game’s emotion is bigger than our friendly emotion so when situation goes out of control just think about the fact what we are going to achieve and at what cost??
Today our game was disturb by me so i am sorry to all of my friend and wish that this situation should not arise in future.
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